This shit topic can be annoying, but also interesting, depending on which position are you standing on. Well, it is quite interesting and entertaining to discuss this thing from the perception of a third person, especially when it is about friends who are close to you. Anyway, it is not a good deed to stab others from the back...
Different people always have different thought towards this topic, but from what had i seen, their opinions can be classified into two extremities. The first was those totally disagree with it, and even being discriminative to it. well, i admit, seeing two guys holding hands shopping together is disgusting enough, what would be my response if they hug or kiss? vomiting? Probably... But some people disagree too much which deviates from what should really hate. Long long time ago, a woman who committed adultery can be sentenced to death, killed by stones thrown by villagers without any mercy, as they had no heart, as they are so noble and innocent, as the woman had polluted the society, brought shame to them, and a human life meant nothing compared to their bullshit nobility... You might had seen this in some classical movies, and had laugh or criticise how uncivilised or barbarian the society in those years... but somehow their mind was no other than that... surely nowadays they can't kill gays for intruding the moral... but if they can they would, i believed... the way they discriminate or set those apart, shows that their mind aren't other than those in the old times... what gives you the power to judge or even penalise others? unless you are totally innocent from the time you were born, in fact, no one can be...
Now, here comes the second type people. These people aren't gay, but they don't object homosexuality... For them, sexuality is a choice, and there is no right and wrong with it, it's people's freedom to love a man or a lady. For them, morality in sexuality is nonsense, an old fashioned thought that only old or outdated people would possess... when you mention that homosexuality is wrong, they might accuse you for abusing other's freedom. They also think that homosexuality is the nature or identity of that particular person, which should let it be the way they are... this thought is common nowadays, and it keeps invading more and more people's mind, especially youngsters, those easily influenced by those bent minds.
So, which type of thought do you have? For me, these two are just too extreme. Ya, i hate and i object homosexuality, but what i hate and object are just the homosexual behaviour, not the people who possess this kind of behaviour... a friend who had aids is still my friend, a friend who kill someone is still my friend, same goes to homosexual friends... I am not totally innocent therefore i don't have the power to judge people... Besides, Everyone deserves a chance... On the other hand, i wouldn't see homosexuality as a nature or normal behaviour. Why? because it is not!!! It was a Abnormality or mental sickness among people, which should be corrected with appropriate ways... Will you see sickness as an identity of a person? Will curing a disease vanishes a person nature? Maybe you'll say some were born with homosexuality, and that makes it the identity of the person... Well, doesn't it mean that it is wrong to cure thalasemia? An objection towars homosexuality without discrimination is the correct perception, i think. A friend always said that my thought is totally influenced by christianity. I don care wat he says... But i believed too much thought of this world is deviated, biased... And more and more people are infected... It is true that people should change their mind as time goes on to adapt themselves to the world. But, it shouldn't had deviated from the standard. sometimes, it can be helpless since it is not easy to change a person's thought. i won't take a bible to the front of a person and say "Lord says, this is wrong and....... blah blah blah......" . It will never work. If it does, i had done it long times ago... There are just too much of those i think was wrong, and i am upset with.. But what can i do as a weak and strengthless human being? or maybe my own isn't correct.... sometimes it is hard to hold on to my own standpoint too...
