恋爱大过天？

看太多了，像这样的例子。。。
有情喝水饱。。。
有了爱情，全世界算什么？
眼里只有对方，其他都看不见了。。。
什么价值观，什么主见，什么志向，算是什么，轻易的放弃了。。。
眼睛都被蒙蔽了。。。
对错都看不清了。。。
重色轻友的就不提了。。
很怀疑这样的感情可以走多远。。。
正确的感情会让双方都得益。。。
正确的感情里双方是互补的。。。
不是盲目的袒护对方， 不是一味的溺爱着对方。。。
错的始终是错的，对的始终是对的。。。
世界不会因你俩的恋爱而改变。。。
你俩还是活在现实的世界里，不管你俩多陶醉在两人的世界里。。。
其他人还是存在的，生活还是要过的。。。
道路歪了，错了，不及时回头，就无法生存，生命就会陷入困境。。。
困境中你俩还能紧守着那所谓海枯石烂的爱情吗？
到头来什么都是一场空。。。
恋人总不舍得让对方受责备，会心疼。。。
所以宁愿选择溺爱对方。。。
溺爱不代表你很爱对方，是种自私的行为，
因为你只因为怕自己心痛，也不让对方改变犯下的错误，让自己好受些。。。
爱不是做给人看的，没必要表面上向众人表示自己多么支持对方。。
对得起良心就好。。
爱对方就不会让你们的感情变成对方的拖累。。。
都几岁了，还恋爱大过天？
爱情是很美丽的，别把它败坏了。。。

给天下热恋中的人，别让爱冲昏了头，别把其他人与事物忽略了，要保持清醒与理智，
这能让你俩的爱长久，也能让你的生命更精彩。。。

#你们看了接受与否，我管不了，这是我想说的，只说一次，以后不会再说，不会再管。。。

obsession

Nice medals... they're not mine, but belongs to my roommates... i took a picture of their medals when they are both sleeping.... dun tell them i took this pic... XD.. haha... stupid.
really quite obsessed with the medals, little jealous maybe...
Had never won one ever for my 20 years' life...
well, i started late maybe...
not much time left to win one...
so desperate and eager to have one of my own...
one is enough, really...
not going to find any alternatives or shortcut just to have one...
it is more important to know the meanings lying behind these medals,
i know it and not going to let my desperation to shake my belief,
i want to win one which i am truly deserved for it,
and i can proudly hold it and showing to others...
well, it's hard but everything is possible,
have some faith in them and myself...

闲/忙

习惯了忙碌，总喜欢让生活充满着大大小小的事物，才叫充实。。
习惯了忙碌，总觉得让自己为某些事物烦着，才仿佛有了人生目标。。。
习惯了忙碌，总是要让自己肩负着些重任，才找到自己的价值。。。
习惯了忙碌， 对期待已久的空闲，反而觉得怪怪的。。。

闲了，生活空洞了，目标没了，价值被贬了。。。
慢慢颓废，废人一个。。。
闲了，脑袋空了，胡思乱想了，沉淀多时的事物浮现了。。。
慢慢烦恼，烦人一个。。。

选择了忙碌，倒不如说是选择了逃避。。。
选择了忙碌，就可以把许多不想处理的问题抛在一旁。。。
选择了忙碌，就可以把许多不想面对的失落暂时忘了。。。
选择了忙碌，就可以把许多不堪回首的痛楚麻痹了。。。
选择了忙碌，就可以把填也填不满的空洞表面的遮盖着。。。
选择了忙碌，就有了一个万能的借口，可以逃避一切。。。

要搞清楚，
要面对的，迟早要面对；
多么不想理的，还是要理；
没有根治的，就消不了痛；
不打开盖的洞，永远无法被填满。。。

要搞清楚，
忙碌或许能让生命充实，
却不能成为真正的人生目标，
也不能给予人生价值，
只是一种假象。。。

别在逃避了！！！

i believe i can fly

i can fly!!!!
FLY....

FLY!!!!!


FLY!!!!
FLY!!!!!

FLY!!!!!!

no.... i cannot fly...

Once had admire those players so so so much,
once had hoped to fly and dunk like they do,
well, the reality is, no matter how hard i try, i can never play like they do

sometimes life is just cruel, as it allows you to have as many dreams as you want, but as life goes on, you found that you have to give some up one by one...
you can't blame anyone for that....
some had never work for their dreams,
some had not work hard enough,
some had worked hard enough but just do not have the luck,
that's just life...

it is always important to be aware of your own position in the reality,
we should appreciate those dreams still remained achievable, instead of mourning for dreams which are lost...

it is time to realise of my position and priorities,
it is time to appreciate of what i had and hold it strongly, not letting it to slip away again
well, i believe i always can fly!!!!!!

the ugly truth

loved the way you had been so naive, open up yourself without any disguise, had the intelligence of being complicated , but had chosen to be naive, had chosen to see the world from its pretty site with a simple mind, but still had realised how much evils are hidden on the other site ... having guidance in whatever you think and do, holding on to it strongly and bravely... a beautiful heart standing among the ugly truths, wisdom that distinct you from the fools...
recently, have found that you are not as blank as a white paper... well, no 1 is... Stories hidden behind are revealed 1 by 1... anticipated and scared...it is driving me crazy... cannot wait to know the real you...